7 years ago today, I embarked on a brand new life, almost a complete departure from everything I had ever known or been taught to believe. After 25 years spent as an extremely fundamentalist and conservative Pentecostal, and after almost a decade of college, the views I had been taught by those two experiences could no longer be reconciled. I believed in Christ, but I did not believe in Pentecostalism, and after a long, hard search fraught with fear and doubt, I found a church where I could belong, and became an Eastern Orthodox Christian. As Christmas had always been my favorite time of year, when my priest asked me on what date I would like to be received into the Church, I said I wanted sometime close to Christmas, and we settled on Sunday, December 12, 2004.
My parents pastored various fundamentalist Pentecostal churches over several decades, and though I didn't know it when I was very small, they firmly believed that Santa Claus had no business sticking his whiskers into Christmas. Vaguely aware that St. Nicholas had been an early Christian bishop, they respected the actual historical figure in so far as they could, but they "didn't believe in bishops," feeling that an episcopal hierarchy smacked of papism. They didn't accept the concept of saints as many Christians embrace them. St. Nicholas was just an all-round problematic figure. They didn't speak of him to me one way or the other when I was very young, not wanting to teach me about "Santa Claus," and yet knowing I had already absorbed the information from the culture around me, so they didn't want to hurt my feelings by digging into the matter too deeply.
When I was four, however, some bright spark who was two or three years older than me saved my parents the trouble, when he got the idea to tell me, "Santa Claus is dead!" I still remember going to my mother in tears, asking her if this was true, and she did her best to explain to a 4-year-old mind the historical facts behind the legend of Santa. It didn't work out too well. Mostly I just remember continuing to cry. A lot. Mom pointed out that I should remember how this felt, so that I wouldn't go around telling other little ones things they weren't yet ready to hear. That message, at least, did sink in--I didn't want to ever do this to anyone else! I spent the next twenty years firmly putting Santa out of my mind, feeling toward him and anyone who taught their kids to believe in him the intense anger that only the betrayed can muster.
|Detail of a photo by Michell Zappa|
What I saw was nothing short of magical. In the small nave, with candles still lit in the vigil lamps before the icons of Christ and His Mother, a figure in red robes entered, his staff in his hand and his miter adding several inches to his height. I knew who he was. I was well aware that he was someone I saw at church every week, wearing a long-used costume. None of that mattered to me in the slightest. A four-year-old girl inside me got Santa Claus back that day, got to meet him, to venerate a great saint of the Church and a bishop who served his people long and faithfully, a man so compassionate and kind that children around the world have loved him, their patron saint, for over 1,700 years. Santa Claus came to visit me. My Church gave me back St. Nicholas. It was one of the happiest, most magical moments of my life.
|Photo by Elmar Ersch|
That is such a beautiful story! I always felt that somehow the tradition of Santa bringing gifts was religiously symbolic of God sending His Son to the world, as the ultimate gift. I didn't know about St Nicholas's historical background in Christianity.ReplyDelete
In our house, Santa is basically a glorified mailman, delivering gifts from family members. Our family rule is when you can "correctly" describe what Santa looks like to mom or dad (aka-short, brown hair & glasses, drives a minivan, etc.), you get to stay up and help Santa w/ the presents! This helps the older kids who have learned the "truth" about Santa feel the REAL excitement of giving to and serving other people.
Thanks you so much for sharing this lovely story with us as part of the Virtual Advent tour.ReplyDelete
That's a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing it with us.ReplyDelete
Wow! Thanks for sharing this experience with us - it brought a few tears to my eyes reading this post. I hope you have a wonderful holiday season!ReplyDelete
Thanks so much for sharing! Wonderful to "meet" you. :DReplyDelete
This was absolutely wonderful. I am not an Orthodox Christian, but this touched me in a deep way. My first child is getting his first Christmas this year, and my wife and I are quite conflicted about Santa Claus. This meant a lot to me.ReplyDelete
Enjoyed reading your story of your magical moment in your life :)ReplyDelete
May you have a very Merry Christmas!